Passover is a holiday built on storytelling — and children are at the very heart of that story. The phrase l’dor v’dor (from generation to generation) reminds us that our traditions live on when we actively include our youngest family members. Even babies and toddlers absorb the sounds, rhythms, and joy of the Seder table. When we create space for them to participate in age-appropriate ways, we send a powerful message: You belong here. This story is yours, too.

Here are simple, creative ways to make your Seder engaging for children from babies through preschool:

Babies: Sensory Seder Moments

Babies experience the world through their senses.

• Let them explore a soft parsley sprig, a plastic kiddush cup, or a crinkly napkin.
• Sing familiar Seder songs with gentle movement or swaying.
• Create a cozy blanket space near the table so they can see faces and hear the storytelling.

Even if they don’t understand the words, they feel the warmth and rhythm of tradition.

Toddlers: Movement & Simple Jobs

Toddlers love to do. Give them meaningful roles:

• Carry the matzah (in a basket).
• Help dip parsley into salt water.
• March around the table during “Dayenu.”
• Practice saying a simple refrain like “Let my people go!”

Short, active moments help toddlers stay engaged while honoring their need to move.

Preschoolers: Storytelling & Creativity

Preschoolers are ready for imagination and big questions.

• Use props (a toy baby in a basket, blue fabric for the Red Sea).
• Make simple tambourines ahead of time to celebrate like Miriam.
• Create a “10 Plagues” sensory tray (marshmallows for hail, plastic frogs, etc.).
• Invite them to ask their own version of the Four Questions — any question counts. 

When children help tell the story, it becomes personal and memorable.

Keep It Joyful, Keep It Flexible

A Seder with young children may be shorter, louder, or a little messier — and that’s okay. The goal isn’t perfection; it’s connection. When children feel welcomed at the table, they begin to understand that Judaism is something alive, joyful, and meant for them.

This Passover, may your home be filled with questions, laughter, song, and the beautiful reminder that our story continues — l’dor v’dor — through the voices of our children.